Introduction : Navigating the great relational divide -- Hardwired to connect -- Discovery one : Communicate. Different ways of communicating -- through the discovery of mind patterns -- Mapping the way you communicate -- Reconciling the differences in the ways we communicate -- Discovery two : Understand. Different ways of understanding -- through the discovery of thinking talents -- Mapping the way you understand -- Reconciling the differences in the ways we understand -- Discovery three : Learn. Different ways of learning -- through the discovery of inquiry styles -- Mapping the way you learn -- Reconciling the differences in the ways we learn -- Discovery four : Trust. Different ways of trusting -- through the discovery of personal narratiaves -- Mapping the way you trust -- Reconciling the differences in the ways we grow trust -- Growing from each other -- Appendix : Mind pattern pairs.